What she remembers
What she keeps about you, how that shapes the friendship, and how you stay in charge.
Facts and notes Facts Notes
Some things about you are steady — where you live, what you do, who matters. Some things are in motion: a plan you are weighing, a rough season, a hope you have not named out loud yet. She keeps both kinds, which is why replies stop feeling generic — she is answering you. She does not dump every detail into every message; she brings what fits the moment.
How learning works Just learned
She learns from what you actually talk about, quietly, without making a ceremony of it. If you ask her to hold onto something, she treats that as a priority. You should not have to manage a filing system — just trust that she is keeping the right things, and fix her if she is wrong.
See and change what she knows What Mairy knows
Nothing she remembers about you is hidden from you. You can see it, correct it, remove it, or add something yourself when you do not feel like re-explaining. Preferences she already knows (diet, budget, the things you love) can shape recommendations when you ask. If something is wrong or unwanted, you change it.
Sparks and inside jokes Sparks Running bits
Sometimes she says a line worth keeping. You can hold onto those as little keepsakes from the friendship, separate from the everyday memory she uses to answer you. Inside jokes grow the same way they do with a real friend: they come back when the timing is right, and when one lands, you both know.
Moments that mattered Moments
She notices emotional beats like a win, a vent, or a milestone, and can keep a few of them. You decide what stays, so old storms do not get to haunt every quiet day forever.